I actually wrote something that touched base on the results of kids being given these limited options. I agree completely that these "menus" are the root of a larger unhealthy direction.
My article makes the claim that this is part of the source for why modern day adults are so indecisive. It is because a lot of their decision making opportunities have been denied.
Perhaps you could give it a quick read. I'm always open to a different opinion. https://akmcclure.medium.com/dont-do-nothing-e91596da5d24
Thanks for writing this. It needs to said.